186. Outsourced

You have outsourced more of your emotional life than you realize. And it is costing you everything.

In this third episode of The Truth About Relationships, We name the most expensive habit in the relational life of high-functioning, high-caring humans: outsourcing.

You have been outsourcing your assurance.. waiting on other people to tell you that you are enough, doing it right, loved, lovable, chosen. A job interview you have been on for ten years that no one was hiring for.

You have been outsourcing your closure ...waiting on an apology, an acknowledgment, a they finally get it moment that may never come. A door you have been waiting on someone else to unlock that has been open the whole time.

This episode walks you through both patterns, brings the InnerBoard reframe.. you are the CEO of your own life ..and ties everything back to lovability as a birthright. Because the reason we outsource is that, somewhere along the way, we forgot what was already true about us.

This is the episode that finishes the unhooking. By the end, you will know exactly where you have been waiting  and how to take the seat back.

Assurance is something you give yourself. Closure is something you decide. You are the only one with the key to either door.