The Becoming You Show with Leah Roling

180. The Tell

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May 8, 2026 9:00 am PT
30 minutes
You already know the famous question: what would you do if you could not fail? It's the question that gets asked at conferences and printed on gym walls, and it has never once made anyone do the thing. Because failure is not actually what's stopping most of us. Something quieter is.

In this second episode of the series on courage, Leah offers a different question... one she believes will follow you for the rest of your life if you let it: what would you do if you knew you were worthy? Then she introduces The Tell: the quiet, knowing, intuitive signal your body sends when the truth is trying to speak through you. It is not a diagnostic. It is not a framework with steps. It is the simple acknowledgment that you are not just a mind making decisions — you are a body carrying wisdom, and that body has been trying to tell you who you are for a long time.

Three vignettes drawn from moments most of us have lived — in meetings, in relationships, in mirrors — show you exactly where The Tell shows up in ordinary life. And the invitation is not to master it. The invitation is to trust it.

This is the episode that closes the gap between knowing you're worthy and living like you are.

In this episode:
• Why "what would you do if you couldn't fail" is the wrong question
• The question that actually changes something — and why it's so much harder to answer
• The Tell: the quiet signal your body sends when the truth is trying to speak
• Three ordinary moments where The Tell shows up — and where we almost always miss it
• One practice to close the gap between knowing and living


Episode giveaways:
  • This episode is part of the series on courage inside InnerLab. Join us at innerboardsuite.com/innerlab-membership.
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