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188. Becoming Unoffendable

Someone says one sentence and it takes your whole afternoon. You replay it in the shower. You draft the reply you…

July 3, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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187. The Mirror Question

There is a single question that has changed more relationships in my coaching practice than any other. It is the question…

June 26, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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186. Outsourced

You have outsourced more of your emotional life than you realize. And it is costing you everything. In this third episode…

June 19, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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185. The Rules You Never Wrote

Most of the rules you are holding people to... your partner, your kid, your parent, your friend ...you did not write.…

June 12, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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184. The Neutrality of Others

What if the person you have been struggling with is actually neutral  and you have been the one writing the story?In…

June 5, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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183. Worth Manifesto

Some conversations require you to stop being polite about what you actually believe. This is one of them. In the capstone…

May 29, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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182. Living Un-Collapsed

Personal development sells the awakening. It rarely talks about what comes after. What happens on the ordinary Tuesday when the realization…

May 22, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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180. The Tell

You already know the famous question: what would you do if you could not fail? It\'s the question that gets asked…

May 8, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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179. Worth Aquisition

We spend our lives acquiring everything .....degrees, partners, titles, applause and almost nothing we acquire ever fills the one hole it…

May 1, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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174. Perfection is "false" Protection

Perfectionism is not excellence. It’s fear in a tuxedo. Polished. Responsible. High-achieving. Impressive. And quietly terrified. If you’ve ever told yourself:…

March 27, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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173. The Discomfort Quotient

Your comfort zone is not comfort. It’s a cage with familiar wallpaper. And every time you choose it, your world gets…

March 20, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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172. You're Measuring it Wrong

You don’t feel behind because you are behind. You feel behind because you’re measuring wrong. Comparison isn’t the problem. It’s human.…

March 13, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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166: The Quiet Power of Choice: Why Your Life Looks the Way It Does

Most people aren’t stuck — they’re just repeating choices they’ve never questioned.” We tend to think our lives are shaped by…

January 30, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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165: The ROI of Self: Why the Most Important Returns Are Invisible

We’re taught to measure what’s visible. Revenue. Productivity. Performance. Results. But the most important returns in life — clarity, confidence, resilience,…

January 23, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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164: When Support Turns Soft Sabotage

Support is supposed to help us grow. But what happens when the very people who love us most are quietly reinforcing…

January 16, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

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163: The Culture of Becoming: How the World Is Quietly Shaping Who You’re Becoming

We don’t just grow in private. We become inside a culture. In this episode of The Becoming You Show, we explore…

January 9, 2026

Host: Leah Roling

156. What are you really avoiding?

156. What are you really avoiding?

We say we’re busy. We say we don’t have time. But what if it’s not time we’re lacking—it’s tolerance? In this…

November 14, 2025

Host: Leah Roling

152: Vulnerability: The Courage to Be Seen Without Control

152: Vulnerability: The Courage to Be Seen Without Control

We talk about vulnerability like it’s a virtue — but most of us have never actually practiced it. In this episode,…

October 17, 2025

Host: Leah Roling

150: The Trust Paradox: Risk, Recklessness, and the Belief Gap

150: The Trust Paradox: Risk, Recklessness, and the Belief Gap

What if the very thing you’re calling “reckless” is the reason you feel stuck? In this episode of Becoming You, Leah…

October 3, 2025

Host: Leah Roling

149: The Next Human Era: Who Will Triumph?

149: The Next Human Era: Who Will Triumph?

History doesn’t repeat itself, but it rhymes. Every era has demanded something different from us. The Industrial Revolution required physical grit.…

September 26, 2025

Host: Leah Roling

146.  Are you Healing or Hiding?

146. Are you Healing or Hiding?

Watch: https://youtu.be/b8-G20_3zBc    We’ve been told that healing is the path to wholeness—but what if the pursuit of healing has become the…

September 5, 2025

Host: Leah Roling

The Sacred Role You Didn’t Know You Had, Redefining the Doula Archetype for Everyday Life

The Sacred Role You Didn’t Know You Had, Redefining the Doula Archetype for Everyday Life

Let me ask you something: Have you ever helped a child fall asleep after a nightmare or a stomachache? Have you…

August 26, 2025

Hosts: Jennie Sikes, Dr. Pat Baccili

142. Identity Debt: The Cost of Being Who You’re Not Anymore

142. Identity Debt: The Cost of Being Who You’re Not Anymore

You say you want more—but are you actually ready to receive it? In this deeply personal and powerfully reflective episode, Leah…

August 8, 2025

Host: Leah Roling

140: SPARK & HEAR: How to Lead and Receive Conversations That Actually Create Change

140: SPARK & HEAR: How to Lead and Receive Conversations That Actually Create Change

Ever left a conversation feeling misunderstood, reactive, or completely drained—even though your heart was in the right place? You’re not alone.…

July 25, 2025

Host: Leah Roling

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