164: When Support Turns Soft Sabotage

Support is supposed to help us grow.
But what happens when the very people who love us most are quietly reinforcing who we used to be?

In this episode of The Becoming You Show, we explore when support turns into soft sabotage — the subtle, often well-intentioned ways relationships can unintentionally slow growth, maintain outdated identities, or keep us tethered to versions of ourselves we’ve already outgrown.

This is not a conversation about blame.
It’s about awareness.

We’ll unpack:

• How support can unconsciously reinforce old identities

• Why growth often disrupts relationship dynamics

• The difference between comfort and alignment

• And how to navigate change with integrity — without burning bridges or abandoning yourself

This episode is an invitation to examine your support systems with clarity and compassion — and to choose growth without guilt.