Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Dr. Bruce Chalmer is a licensed psychologist and couples therapist with more than 30 years of experience helping partners navigate conflict, betrayal, desire, disconnection, and the deeper tensions of long-term intimacy. He holds a Ph.D. in Psychology from the University of Vermont and is the author of several books on relationships, including Reigniting the Spark, It’s Not About Communication, Betrayal and Forgiveness, and The Passion Paradox: When You Feel Miles Apart and Still Love Each Other. Bruce also co-hosts the podcast Couples Therapy in Seven Words with his wife, Judy Alexander. His work explores the paradox between stability and intimacy, helping couples move from panic and blame toward clarity, courage, and a steadier way forward.