Amanda Dames

Amanda Dames is a Certified Somatica® Sex and Relationship Coach, Certified Sexologist, founder of The Kink Consultant, and host of The Kink Consultant Podcast. Her work grew out of her own journey of exploring desire, self-acceptance, and the origins of her kinks after moving to New York City more than a decade ago.

Drawing from her experience as a former dominatrix, coach, and educator, Amanda helps individuals and couples navigate intimacy, fantasy, communication, and desire without shame. Through her consulting work, she supports people in developing a more honest, balanced, and fulfilling relationship with their sexuality and relationships.